Need help with decisions about an elderly parent, friend or relative?

Consider mediation.  A family mediator:

• is a neutral third party trained to help resolve conflicts;
• guiding the family toward consensus on decisions regarding eldercare;
• helping clear up misunderstandings and heal hurt feelings while keeping the family on track;
• involving the loved elder in the process based on their capabilities rather than their perceived incapacities;
• helping persons consider and evaluate as many options as possible;
• encouraging those involved to focus on what is in the best interest of their loved elder.